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Forgiveness and Grace: A Veteran’s Path to Healing

Writer's picture: Anita ArrunateguiAnita Arrunategui


Mike’s journey as a veteran struggling with the weight of his trauma is a powerful example of the need for grace as a pathway to healing. Like many veterans, Mike finds himself grappling with guilt and shame—both for the things he has seen and the ways he has coped, including his battles with addiction and emotional withdrawal.


In moments of despair, Mike questions whether God’s grace could truly be extended to someone who feels so broken. Yet, Ephesians 2:8-9 speaks directly to him: God’s grace is not something Mike can earn, but a free gift, available even when he feels least deserving.


Mike’s struggle with nicotine, alcohol, and pornography, alongside his anxiety and OCD, often distances him from his family and from God. The weight of these battles can make him feel isolated, trapped in his own pain.


But as Mike begins to understand grace, he realizes it’s not about fixing himself before coming to God. Instead, grace meets him where he is, offering redemption in his darkest moments. By accepting that God’s grace is for him—regardless of his past—Mike begins to take steps toward healing, both emotionally and spiritually.


This understanding of grace also transforms how Mike interacts with his family. His wife and children have felt the effects of his trauma and addictions, leading to strained relationships. But as Mike experiences God’s grace, he learns to extend it to them and to himself, acknowledging his need for support without shame.


His family, too, begins to embrace grace, offering patience and forgiveness as they walk alongside him in his healing journey. This mutual grace begins to rebuild their broken communication and foster a deeper understanding.


Mike’s story reminds us that healing from trauma is not linear, nor does it come from self-

reliance. It is through the process of embracing God’s grace that veterans like Mike can find

restoration in their relationship with God, their families, and themselves.

 

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